Dating life after college
You’ve partied and had your share of fun, almost until those one night stands and meaningless flings make no sense to you anymore. And when you’re mentally prepared to enter the next stage, your mind convinces you of the benefits of moving to the next stage. [Read: 9 relationship stages that all couples go through] #5 Tradition.
At this point, your mind’s telling you that you’ve changed, and you want someone to share your life with, and not just your bed for a night. Marriage is a tradition that’s stood the test of time.
Marriage is an ethical bond that defines your relationship with your partner as more than just a casual fling.
Your parents were married, and their parents before them.
But with the high divorce rates in the United States alone, you may find yourself asking if it’s even worth the effort?
Living life as a single forever may sound appealing, but at some point, all of us feel the need to be watched by someone else, and have someone else to share our happy and sad moments. Do you remember how your teen years and your single years were? It’ll be a whole new experience that’ll be worth the ride.[Read: 25 relationship rules for successful love] #12 You want children.Do you stare at those commercials on the telly where they show happy kids doing cute things and running around a park?You knew you were going to perform badly, so why bother giving the tests, right? If you’re not mentally and physiologically prepared for marriage, chances are, you wouldn’t like them too. You can be pushed into a new stage, but unless you’re mentally prepared to go to the next stage, you’ll never enjoy it.And just like school, college, your first relationship, your first job and so many other moments, marriage too is a big stage that has the potential to change your life.